Living with a thyroid patient is no picnic. Every day means dealing with some manifestation of two issues: the reality of a physiology with a compromised organ (or, in my husband's case, no organ) and the reality of a medication that has side effects. Most days, I am uncertain which is going to show up, biochemically speaking, but whichever issue makes an appearance, I try to cope with grace. Note the symptoms of each issue; those in bold are the ones I have had to deal with over the years.
Synthroid® Side Effects
Rapid or irregular heartbeat
Chest pain, breathing issues
Increased sensitivity to cold
Pale, dry skin
Elevated blood cholesterol level
Unexplained weight gain
Change in appetite
Muscle aches, tenderness, stiffness
Pain, stiffness, joint swelling
Frequent bowel movements
Brittle fingernails & hair
Forgetfulness, slow thinking
Decreased bone density
Other unusual medical events
Most, if not all, of these symptoms are relatively mild or nonexistent for my husband these days, either that or I have become so inured to them after eighteen years that they only seem mild to me now. It wasn't always like that. The first few months after surgery were a very different story, as our first endocrinologist tried to settle on an optimal Synthroid® dosage for King Richard. She eventually had him taking 325 mcg of levothyroxine daily, an amount we later discovered was so high that, most of the time, my poor husband walked around in a state of profound hyperthyroidism as his doctor attempted to force his TSH (thyroid stimulating hormone) level to register zero on a bloodwork run. Such was the accepted therapy for medullary thyroid cancer at that time, thinking that suppression of TSH would prevent recurrence. At least that is what we were told back in the early 1990's. Thankfully, my husband and I eventually found our way to an excellent specialist who adjusted his Synthroid® dose down to a more normal level (~175 mcg), not in the stratosphere.
So why do I want this young couple to be armed with the information in this book? Quite simply: divorce. Over the years, King Richard and I have encountered a number of couples that have dealt with some kind of thyroid disease, be it thyroid cancer, Graves disease, or hypothyroidism. To date, of the couples we know in our locale that have had to deal with thyroid cancer, ours is the only marriage still intact. I do not say that to brag, nor do I say it lightly. As I said before, living with a thyroid patient is no picnic. Ending up with a thyroid patient after several years of marriage is one thing. Taking on a thyroid patient as a "young couple in love" and having little or no knowledge of what you are getting into could be disastrous; at the very least, it could lead to years of emotional damage.
So...I will offer the book to them when I am finished with it. Hopefully, they will find it helpful and will graciously listen to an elder who has walked the path before them. If not, then I will continue to make myself available to them for advice and counsel should they ever have the need or the desire to ask for it.